If an X sperm fertilizes an X egg, the fetus will be female.
If a Y sperm fertilizes the X egg, the fetus will be male.
So if you have an FTM partner, you could definitely identify as straight, even if he has biologically female anatomy, since his gender identity is male. Don't hold back because of the way he was born.
That being said, some people with transgender partners identify as queer, or pansexual, since they don’t feel bound by the sex or gender of a partner. You are a straight woman attracted to a masculine man. Love him for the man he is." It can be hard to label your sexual orientation when you have a transgender partner, so if you don't feel like doing so right now, that's okay.
There's a vocabulary of protection used around the intersex community -- of "escape" from sex assignment surgery to normalize their genitals, of PTSD and survivorship, of guilt from some whose bodies remain intact.
It did not successfully lay the matter to rest at the time.
A straight-identified teen wonders if having an Ft M (female to male transgender) partner means that she is a lesbian.
Figuring out your sexual orientation is complicated for a lot of people, but for someone with a transgender partner, this can raise even more questions.
Simmering rumors of Gaga's intersexuality boiled over in 2009 after a fan posted a You Tube video showing a little "something extra" peeking out from under the singer's miniskirt during a summer performance in Glastonbury.
The quality of the video is too poor to tell precisely what that "something" is.
She has mocked the rumors in order to bring attention to double standards for women about being open about their sexuality—and enjoyment thereof.