If you are dating someone with kids older than 10 years old, then you have to remember that they are going through their teen phase when things are uncertain. If they show some kind of disrespect, don’t take it personally. Even if they like you, they need to see strong evidence that you are “cool” enough for them. Competing with the real mother or father of the kids never ends well.They have a huge advantage, so what’s the point of trying to compete with them? It’s not a competition where you need to show what a great mother you would be if it was you in the first place.The secret is to believe in yourself and that you can make it happen.And most of all, have faith that love is stronger than any other feeling.
Since the person you love has children, you need to accept that he or she needs to spend some quality time with them.
Men and women with children are dating because they want to move on with their lives. They are not dating you because they want to feel free, or get revenge.
They are looking for someone to make them forget what it was like to have children with someone you can’t stand. That’s not how men and women with kids think when they are dating. If you have the same serious feelings about them, then let go the bad thoughts and think of happiness with the person you enjoy spending most of your time with.
If your partner’s children are younger than 10 years old you will have better chance to be liked.
Kids are more approachable at this tender age and you can be their new friend. No matter how sweet it might sound, you need to stop it right away.
It can hold you together even if the person you are dating has kids with someone else.