What’s the point of being in a relationship at any age if you’re not having fun?
It shouldn’t be a job and it shouldn’t be depressing.
When you’re in your 30s, it’s easy to get caught up in thinking about the things you don’t have yet.
If you think it’s never going to happen, then it won’t; you have to be positive. You'll never find your soulmate if you're a dating cynic.When I was in my mid-20s, I wanted a partner who drove a nice car and could afford to take me to a fancy restaurant.Although I still think these things are great, now that I’m in my 30s, I know that I want more in a partner.I have a nervous personality, so I need someone who can tell me to relax.I’m very social and I love entertaining, so I need someone who can hold their own and have a conversation without me around.
, I’m always a little shocked to realize that I’m the same age as Carrie and her friends. Now, when I watch it as a single woman in her 30s, it hits a little closer to home.