Is it attracting the interest of couch potatoes, the chronically ill or the guys just looking for a little action?
If so, you are likely making at least one of the mistakes commonly made by women over 40 who are using online dating as their new discos. ) Unfortunately, all it takes is one major profile mistake to potentially sabotage any chance of finding love — or even a few good dates.
Because if it doesn’t catch his interest right away, it only takes a single click for him to find one that does.
The good news is that unlike a lot of things in life, your profile is easy to change and update.
You can go on to say that you look forward to a relationship, but really…where can a man possibly see time for himself in that picture?
Also, avoid these statements: “I don’t need a man, but it would be nice to have one in my life.” Or, “I’ve been fine all these years without a man but I’ll make room for the right one .” Men, just like women, don’t want to feel like an accessory in someone else’s life.
” Spend your initial time letting him know how you relax and enjoy yourself and how being with you will add positively to both of your lives.
If you want to be noticed and rise to the top, it pays to create the best possible profile and keep it polished and shiny.
Once you’ve hit your 40s and beyond, you kind of know what works for you and what doesn’t. If you do a good job describing yourself and painting a picture of what it feels like to be in a relationship with you, it will attract the right men and repel the wrong ones.
Many women use their profile as a list of their likes and dislikes. So focus more on what you have to offer, and less on what they can do for you.
Because, let’s face it, the odds are not in our favor, ladies.
As we get older the man-to-woman ratio moves more and more lopsided.
As a Dating and Relationship Coach for Women over 40, I’ve seen (and done) it all when it comes to online dating.