they only like me as a friend." So, part of this step is for you to take a day or so and go out in public...
to a place that is PACKED with people, and look around at the couples.
If so, which ones and what would you like to change them to? I used to believe that women would be VERY offended or alarmed if I tried to strike up an unexpected conversation with them...
If you're like most guys I know who would like to improve their success with women, then you probably have one or two "negative programs" in your subconscious mind (if you're like I used to be before I learned the things I know now, then you might have A LOT of them. I can remember feeling that if a woman rejected me in front of other people that I WOULD DIE of embarrassment.
nobody cares whether or not you're successful, only you do).
The more you improve, the more you'll WANT to improve, and the easier it will become. Keep a journal, write down what works and what doesn't, think about the things you'd like to change and write them down. If you do these things, you'll begin to REPROGRAM YOURSELF and change your negative programming into POSITIVE programming and success.
Of course, the best place to start is with some of the materials that I've put together... I'm talking about trying out everything you can imagine..having MOST of it NOT work.
It took me years of trial and error to really figure out what works with women. Every time I found something that DID work, I took the idea, refined it, and wrote it down...
By: David De Angelo, Author of "Double Your Dating" 11/14/2008 Dating Tips Home / Online Dating Home / Opposite Sex Channel Most guys don't realize it, but they're PROGRAMMED to fail with women. article and you'll learn if you have negative programming that's keep you from the success you want, and what to do about it.
As a matter of fact, most of the techniques that I've learned, developed, and write about originally started out as something I got from friends by watching them interact with women.
When you watch guys who know how to make women feel that magical emotion called "ATTRACTION", you'll start to see the patterns in their behavior, and the patterns in the responses from women. Realize that you're going to have to CONSTANTLY learn and improve. You'd like to take a pill and have this whole part of your life handled.
3) Have you CHOSEN the beliefs and attitudes that you have towards women, or have they been "chosen for you" by others, situations, programming, TV, the media, etc.?
4) Would you like to change some of the attitudes and beliefs that you hold in your mind?