That may sound rigid, but it also teaches women how to treat one another with kindness and respect. Instead of criticising another girl when she enters the room, how about empowering them – or at least make a new friend by sending her a compliment? You may have zero interest in talking to any of your girlfriend’s crush’s friends, but you’ll be doing your friend a great service if she and the guy hits it off. If your friend is going out with a guy they have never met (be it on a blind date or from Tinder), you make sure she texts you her location and what time she expects to arrive home. If not, text her to ensure that she’s okay and has made it home safely. If you see some girl looking evidently distressed or grossed out by a guy hitting on her, be it in the club or on the streets, go over and extricate her from said creep by pretending to be her friend and then lead her away to safety. Friends don’t let friends walk out looking like fashion victims.
Break any of the girl code rules, and you might just lose a girlfriend, or risk being ostracised by everyone. Even something as simple as “cute shoes,” or “I love the shade of your lipstick” will put a smile on her face and make you seem more approachable. Or, if a girl you don’t know suddenly joins your clique and acts like you’re friends, she’s most likely looking to get away from a creep. (Credits) Give thanks to your girlfriends every time they save you from venturing into the fashion disaster zone.
A true blue friend is someone who wants to pick you up when you're down, support you when you need it most, and promote your best qualities.
What better way to show you care than by planning a quality evening with your other best friends: alcohol, music and Samantha?
This set of rules is unspoken and every female is expected to follow it. Look, the world is cruel enough without us putting each other down. Let the cat out of the bag – whether it’s about her crush or problems at home – to an unauthorised party and you would have broken the girl code. For example, “The Pool Guy”, “The Pantry Guy”, “The Guy With the Unexciting Face” – whatever works. If you’ve heard her talk endlessly about her crush, but she’s not doing anything about it, just take one for the team and help her out. Look out for your girlfriends when they are out on a date with a new guy. (Credits) Spare a minute to save a fellow female from guys who can’t afford to buy a clue.
Sometimes you have to take a step back and ask yourself: "is this worth ruining my friendship (or the ability to borrow my friend's awesome new top next week)?
"We were socialized to put others before ourselves.
If the girl code is broken then you’re in danger of losing a friend or alienating yourself from the group.
Although we all make mistakes some are more forgiving than others.
Why sacrifice a valuable friendship for a guy who won't last and is inevitably playing both of you?