A few months later she contacted me out of the blue and asked me how I was doing and if I had found someone.We took things very slowly, and after months of dating I decided to ask Krystal to be my girlfriend. Krystal’s roommate ended up moving out and about a year into dating I moved in with Krystal.But since you didn’t have my book, what’s happened to you now is predictable.You might have thought this situation was going to improve on its own, Garry, but when Interest Level goes 60%...58%..56%...54%, it’s like an airplane going down. Like my cousin General Love says, “It just crashes and burns.” And that’s what happened with your wife.She has low Interest Level, you’re out, and you think she has high interest and that you’re still in. They are very, very clear signals to you, my friend. And again, why are you going to be friends with a couple related to a woman who dumped you? Again, if you’d had “The System,” this disaster never would have happened.
But since I’ve moved in with Krystal, the sex is lazy and less often, she always complains about something, she doesn’t share any common interests with me, and she keeps pressuring me to get engaged. I understand that no woman is perfect and Krystal is the best I’ve met in hundreds of dates, and she legitimately is good marriage material.
They just want to bellyache and are looking for an ear to cry into. You’re telling me that called “BACK,” which says that you can’t go back because the things that turned you off are still there. There are thousands of different things you can do when you have a partner, and you only need four or five of them in order have something in common. Like my cousin Rabbi Love says, “When it comes to picking them, you don’t know what you’re doing, my son.”Sadly, Jamie, you really didn’t marry Chanel out of love – you married her out of need. Your wife has low Self-Esteem and she’s overweight and she doesn’t know how to handle money. There are lots of great women out there, but you didn’t get one either time you decided to get married.
The real issue here is that Krystal is a complainer and she’s pressuring you to get engaged. What that means is that she’s unhealthy and we live in an economic society. But like my Uncle Jethro Love says, “Too bad she don’t know how to lose weight! The really sad part is that if you’d had my book, you wouldn’t have married either one of these women and created all of this anguish for yourself. Since I notice that you don’t mention “The System,” you’re not aware of how this process of deterioration works and you don’t even see that it’s going on.
How obvious does she have to make it before you get the drift that you’re not just out, but that you’re COMPLETELY OUT? Sure, they love you – but what good is it when your girlfriend is out of love with you?
Dude, Dakota isn’t confused at all – you’re the one who’s confused. What are you going to do, hang around Dakota’s family and show up to her wedding when she marries her real love? Dakota’s Facebook posts aren’t mixed signals at all.
I don’t want to break up with Krystal as I genuinely love her, her parents love me and my parents love her. Brent - who wants coaching from only the best I’ve been married twice and am currently still on my second marriage.