It’s like any guy who gets super horny and is feeling instead of thinking. I’ll try getting them to hold my purse or tie my shoes for me.As far as my personal sex life goes, it’s surprisingly vanilla. And I’m almost always honest about what I do for a living -- even my mom knows and she’s fine with it; my dad doesn’t want to know. There are some guys who get off on being put in chastity (via a tricked-out plastic tube called “the CB-3000”) and combine that with financial domination.during the run-up to the annual Adult Video News Awards in Vegas, two provocatively clad women told me about a guy who gave them ,000. The women, Maitresse Madeline and Mistress Lorelei Lee, made names for themselves as actresses in adult films, but they also indulge in the sexual art of “financial domination,” or “fin dom,” a craft that sounds like a cross between S&M and a big-store con (albeit, with extremely compliant marks, dubbed “pay pigs”).He was Australian, they said, and the money was supposed to be for a session of live online camming. It fills their bank accounts while satisfying the carnal needs of guys who get off on giving money to demanding women.Last year he paid for a girlfriend and I to fly business-class to Greece.When we landed, his driver picked us up and handed us our island-hopping itinerary. The last week of the trip, I met a hot young Greek guy and bragged about him online.
After I requested proof of the ,000 transaction, they became testy. When I reached out to them for a follow-up chat, a representative told me that they “felt the tone of the conversation was borderline disrespectful,” and that future interviews were out of the question. And I kept encountering the same problem: most wouldn’t talk, many were hostile (unsurprising, given their line of work), some struck me as outright fakes. Her haul comes via cash and gifts from men who are happy to grovel online, fulfill Amazon wish lists, and send money via Western Union, all without meeting her IRL.
[The client] was jealous, but being jealous turns him on.
Just hearing about me being with the Greek guy is enough of a reward for him.
I get spoiled by my fin-dom submissives and can be so lazy sometimes. In fact, the more I brag and the more I show off money, the more excited people get. Some guys claim to be taking out cash advances to pay me. I wipe my ass with bills.” Seriously, what am I supposed to do with 20 dollars? There is a guy who messages me on Twitter and I type back, “Snap, snap.” That signals him to send me 0. Guys send me money after they read a posting on my website. He asked if I would hold the key -- actually both keys -- for his CB-3000. I required him to post pictures of himself on a Tumblr account -- to prove that he didn’t get broken out of it.
Whether it’s true or not, they need the rush of giving up something valuable -- and I don’t feel at all guilty about taking their money. I’ve communicated with slaves at work and told them that I need 0 right now. I sent him selfies that showed the key dangling around my neck. I was supposed to hold the key for a month and ended up making a grand for doing that.
I’ve thought about the psychology of financial domination, and what drives guys to just give away money.